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		<title>By: Rebekah</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54397</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jul 2005 01:31:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SCSIwuzzy,  sounds like you &amp; I have a few things in common!   I&#039;ll limp right alongside you, then! 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SCSIwuzzy,  sounds like you &amp; I have a few things in common!   I&#8217;ll limp right alongside you, then!</p>
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		<title>By: SCSIwuzzy</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54371</link>
		<dc:creator>SCSIwuzzy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 23:08:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebekah, I agree.  If the town has to choose between gimps like me or nothing all, by all means, bring in the gimps!
But lets not lower standards to make people feel good or to be PC :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebekah, I agree.  If the town has to choose between gimps like me or nothing all, by all means, bring in the gimps!<br />
But lets not lower standards to make people feel good or to be PC <img src='http://lashawnbarber.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Raymond</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54344</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 19:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebekah:  Sounds reasonable to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebekah:  Sounds reasonable to me.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebekah</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54338</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 18:59:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Raymond, I see your point -- and agree with it -- re: lowering standards just to allow for women to be hired.  And SCSIwuzzy is correct that very few women could pass the old standards... just as very few men could, and rightly so.  For all practical purposes, the physical requirements should be elevated -- if a  recruit can&#039;t do the job, he or she shouldn&#039;t expect special privileges.  But if SHE can, the guys need to respect her, or they&#039;re cutting themselves off at the kneecaps.

BTW  In my neck of the woods, they had to lower the standards because none of the boys who were applying were capable, either.  Out in the boonies, we get desperate for rescue skills long ahead of the cities, and we&#039;ll take what our puny budgets will give us, even when they&#039;re built like Little Orphan Annie or Jabba the Hut.  We even have a couple of partially-disabled volunteer firemen who come when called.

It all boils down to how the community is best served, doesn&#039;t it?  If the women in Fairfax are given special treatment, and otherwise can&#039;t stand up on the job, give them the boot -- or at least send them to desk duty, and tell them &quot;kwitcherb*tchin&quot;.  If they do the exact same job as the men, and the men still treat them poorly, the men need to grow up.  Of course, there&#039;s  probably a little of both, here, don&#039;t you think?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Raymond, I see your point &#8212; and agree with it &#8212; re: lowering standards just to allow for women to be hired.  And SCSIwuzzy is correct that very few women could pass the old standards&#8230; just as very few men could, and rightly so.  For all practical purposes, the physical requirements should be elevated &#8212; if a  recruit can&#8217;t do the job, he or she shouldn&#8217;t expect special privileges.  But if SHE can, the guys need to respect her, or they&#8217;re cutting themselves off at the kneecaps.</p>
<p>BTW  In my neck of the woods, they had to lower the standards because none of the boys who were applying were capable, either.  Out in the boonies, we get desperate for rescue skills long ahead of the cities, and we&#8217;ll take what our puny budgets will give us, even when they&#8217;re built like Little Orphan Annie or Jabba the Hut.  We even have a couple of partially-disabled volunteer firemen who come when called.</p>
<p>It all boils down to how the community is best served, doesn&#8217;t it?  If the women in Fairfax are given special treatment, and otherwise can&#8217;t stand up on the job, give them the boot &#8212; or at least send them to desk duty, and tell them &#8220;kwitcherb*tchin&#8221;.  If they do the exact same job as the men, and the men still treat them poorly, the men need to grow up.  Of course, there&#8217;s  probably a little of both, here, don&#8217;t you think?</p>
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		<title>By: Raymond</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54273</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 15:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The requirements are the same, BUT as mentioned, they were LOWERED to accommodate the gals.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The requirements are the same, BUT as mentioned, they were LOWERED to accommodate the gals.</p>
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		<title>By: kevin</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54252</link>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 13:41:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>La Shawn, the next question to ask is when were the requirements changed, and what were the old requirements?

I am certain that you will find that the physical requirements are the same for men and women, but that they are about 50% of what the requirements were only a few short years ago.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>La Shawn, the next question to ask is when were the requirements changed, and what were the old requirements?</p>
<p>I am certain that you will find that the physical requirements are the same for men and women, but that they are about 50% of what the requirements were only a few short years ago.</p>
<p>k</p>
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		<title>By: SCSIwuzzy</title>
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		<dc:creator>SCSIwuzzy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 13:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I dunno about the warrior spirit bit Ray.
I&#039;ll agree about the physicality issues, however.  It is a minority of women who can meet the minimum requirements for firefighting or infantry that men must meet.  And is nearly an anomoly to find women that can meet the physical prowess of the average male soldier after boot.
For firefighting...
I am thinking of my own self as an example.  I had to give up EMT work when my knee gave up the ghost.  I can bench press 240 lbs (okay, 215 if I have to do it more than a few times), and shoulder 180 when seated, but I cannot safely carry more than 100 without extra support from a rigid brace (which means no steps, no ladders, no squats).  Should I have stayed in service, even though I could not carry a body down a ladder or steps in a pinch?
Ironicly, there was no room for me in a driver/tech only posistion, because they were all filled by the ladies :)
Should the fire depts. open things up guys that &quot;nearly make&quot; the cut as well?
Personally, I say no.  But like alot these days, it&#039;s equality of outcome vs. equality of opportunity arguement again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I dunno about the warrior spirit bit Ray.<br />
I&#8217;ll agree about the physicality issues, however.  It is a minority of women who can meet the minimum requirements for firefighting or infantry that men must meet.  And is nearly an anomoly to find women that can meet the physical prowess of the average male soldier after boot.<br />
For firefighting&#8230;<br />
I am thinking of my own self as an example.  I had to give up EMT work when my knee gave up the ghost.  I can bench press 240 lbs (okay, 215 if I have to do it more than a few times), and shoulder 180 when seated, but I cannot safely carry more than 100 without extra support from a rigid brace (which means no steps, no ladders, no squats).  Should I have stayed in service, even though I could not carry a body down a ladder or steps in a pinch?<br />
Ironicly, there was no room for me in a driver/tech only posistion, because they were all filled by the ladies <img src='http://lashawnbarber.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Should the fire depts. open things up guys that &#8220;nearly make&#8221; the cut as well?<br />
Personally, I say no.  But like alot these days, it&#8217;s equality of outcome vs. equality of opportunity arguement again.</p>
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		<title>By: Raymond</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54222</link>
		<dc:creator>Raymond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 01:46:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebekah, Actus is notorius for the Straw Man and Amphiboly fallacies.

Your points in #51 are mostly correct in spirit, BUT...

I must correct you a little bit however.  It is not just whether or not women can meet the minimum physical standards. The problem is the group cohesiveness dynamic in addition to them being maxed out if they are able to meet the minimum standard.  Women still carry too much of a victim mentality to be effective warriors.

In other words, they are still not qualified and there is STILL the social incompatability with true warriors and warrior spirit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebekah, Actus is notorius for the Straw Man and Amphiboly fallacies.</p>
<p>Your points in #51 are mostly correct in spirit, BUT&#8230;</p>
<p>I must correct you a little bit however.  It is not just whether or not women can meet the minimum physical standards. The problem is the group cohesiveness dynamic in addition to them being maxed out if they are able to meet the minimum standard.  Women still carry too much of a victim mentality to be effective warriors.</p>
<p>In other words, they are still not qualified and there is STILL the social incompatability with true warriors and warrior spirit.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebekah</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54212</link>
		<dc:creator>Rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 00:32:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WNM, I&#039;ve tried petunias, &amp; they think I have a brown thumb.  I&#039;ve done better with geraniums, and they seem to be something of a cat repellant, as well, so  I don&#039;t have to stock up on that scent remover stuff.  I do worry more about toxicity, though, than durability.  I read somewhere that tuberous begonias (like lilies and diffenbachia) can be lethal.


I think that, even when you&#039;re not supposed to be seeing combat, once you&#039;re in today&#039;s military, you can&#039;t expect to avoid it, regardless of your job -- look at Army Spec. Shoshana Johnson... a cook, no less, seeing action up close and personal!  The battle front came to her.  The only way for lesser mortals like us women (she said batting her eyes coquettishly) to avoid seeing combat is to make every actual non-field (desk jockey) position a civilian contractor&#039;s job, and go back to strict physical requirements for the actual military grunt positions  (of course, a majority of those fresh-faced schoolboys will fail the physical, also).

But when you&#039;re talking about firefighters, the theory is, nobody is shooting at you, so the team shouldn&#039;t be quite so fussy about what the teammates&#039; undies are shaped like.  It&#039;s the trust in each others&#039; capabilities that should count.  And those butch guys should get over themselves and accept that some women can be genuinely good at the job.  Otherwise, when they reject and ridicule willing, skilled help, it becomes the community&#039;s loss.


Thanks for the welcome.  

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WNM, I&#8217;ve tried petunias, &amp; they think I have a brown thumb.  I&#8217;ve done better with geraniums, and they seem to be something of a cat repellant, as well, so  I don&#8217;t have to stock up on that scent remover stuff.  I do worry more about toxicity, though, than durability.  I read somewhere that tuberous begonias (like lilies and diffenbachia) can be lethal.</p>
<p>I think that, even when you&#8217;re not supposed to be seeing combat, once you&#8217;re in today&#8217;s military, you can&#8217;t expect to avoid it, regardless of your job &#8212; look at Army Spec. Shoshana Johnson&#8230; a cook, no less, seeing action up close and personal!  The battle front came to her.  The only way for lesser mortals like us women (she said batting her eyes coquettishly) to avoid seeing combat is to make every actual non-field (desk jockey) position a civilian contractor&#8217;s job, and go back to strict physical requirements for the actual military grunt positions  (of course, a majority of those fresh-faced schoolboys will fail the physical, also).</p>
<p>But when you&#8217;re talking about firefighters, the theory is, nobody is shooting at you, so the team shouldn&#8217;t be quite so fussy about what the teammates&#8217; undies are shaped like.  It&#8217;s the trust in each others&#8217; capabilities that should count.  And those butch guys should get over themselves and accept that some women can be genuinely good at the job.  Otherwise, when they reject and ridicule willing, skilled help, it becomes the community&#8217;s loss.</p>
<p>Thanks for the welcome.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 00:11:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yup, burn, baby, burn. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yup, burn, baby, burn. <img src='http://lashawnbarber.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: WNM</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54209</link>
		<dc:creator>WNM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jul 2005 00:05:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebekah,

I don&#039;t know about being cat safe, do you mean toxic or do you mean cat proof?  My wife had me plant a begonia and it has taken off.  Lots of cats in our neighborhood but the plant is undisturbed (a couple of toms are eating the leaves of my purple fountain grass and using my mulch for litter)

Petunias are easy, forgiving and with a variety of colors; fool proof.  I don&#039;t know of any cats (or anything else) being hurt by them.

True, there are many postitions that aren&#039;t combat related.  My take was that they were discussing infantry (I think, I&#039;m former Air Force so unfamiliar with the divisions and/or MOS)

And you are spot on about actus, it is a little game he plays.  I usually bite when he attacks LaShawn.  Otherwise, if this is your first time here, welcome to one of the coolest sites in the blogosphere. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebekah,</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about being cat safe, do you mean toxic or do you mean cat proof?  My wife had me plant a begonia and it has taken off.  Lots of cats in our neighborhood but the plant is undisturbed (a couple of toms are eating the leaves of my purple fountain grass and using my mulch for litter)</p>
<p>Petunias are easy, forgiving and with a variety of colors; fool proof.  I don&#8217;t know of any cats (or anything else) being hurt by them.</p>
<p>True, there are many postitions that aren&#8217;t combat related.  My take was that they were discussing infantry (I think, I&#8217;m former Air Force so unfamiliar with the divisions and/or MOS)</p>
<p>And you are spot on about actus, it is a little game he plays.  I usually bite when he attacks LaShawn.  Otherwise, if this is your first time here, welcome to one of the coolest sites in the blogosphere.</p>
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		<title>By: La Shawn</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54202</link>
		<dc:creator>La Shawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2005 23:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A little pyro fantasy going on, Andy? ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A little pyro fantasy going on, Andy? <img src='http://lashawnbarber.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
		<link>http://lashawnbarber.com/archives/2005/07/06/whiny/comment-page-2/#comment-54201</link>
		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2005 23:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Huh-huh, huh-hu.  Fire&#039;s cooool! Nice pix there La Shawn :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Huh-huh, huh-hu.  Fire&#8217;s cooool! Nice pix there La Shawn <img src='http://lashawnbarber.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rebekah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebekah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2005 23:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WNM, I&#039;m certainly unfamiliar with the group dynamic, but I think some folks seem to be rising to some bait from a very old hook.  I haven&#039;t seen a truly indefensible post, here, from actus.  Occasionally incorrect, perhaps, such as his &quot;There are lots of non-combat jobs in the armed forces. Probably a majority of the jobs in the armed forces don’t involve being in combat. &quot;  But not indefensible.


BTW -- thanx for the potted plant advice.  Are begonias cat-safe?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WNM, I&#8217;m certainly unfamiliar with the group dynamic, but I think some folks seem to be rising to some bait from a very old hook.  I haven&#8217;t seen a truly indefensible post, here, from actus.  Occasionally incorrect, perhaps, such as his &#8220;There are lots of non-combat jobs in the armed forces. Probably a majority of the jobs in the armed forces don’t involve being in combat. &#8221;  But not indefensible.</p>
<p>BTW &#8212; thanx for the potted plant advice.  Are begonias cat-safe?</p>
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		<title>By: actus</title>
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		<dc:creator>actus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2005 23:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;If she canâ€™t physically protect even herself of what use is she to the army? &quot;

Loads. There are lots of non-combat jobs in the armed forces. Probably a majority of the jobs in the armed forces don&#039;t involve being in combat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;If she canâ€™t physically protect even herself of what use is she to the army? &#8221;</p>
<p>Loads. There are lots of non-combat jobs in the armed forces. Probably a majority of the jobs in the armed forces don&#8217;t involve being in combat.</p>
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